That Girl, But in a Real Way
For a while, I wanted to become that girl.
You know the one.
She wakes up early.
Her room is always clean.
She eats perfectly.
She journals, works out, drinks green juice, and somehow still has glowing skin.
She has her life together.
And I kept wondering—
Why don’t I look like that?
Why can’t I live like that?
Then I realized something.
That version of “that girl” is a fantasy.
Not a life.
I used to think confidence came from doing everything right.
Perfect routines.
Perfect habits.
Perfect discipline.
But real confidence doesn’t come from perfection.
It comes from knowing how to reset—again and again.
So here’s my version of that girl.
She still wakes up tired sometimes.
She misses workouts.
She eats snacks at midnight.
She overthinks.
She doubts herself.
But she doesn’t quit on herself.
My version of that girl looks like this:
She rests without guilt.
She starts over without shame.
She doesn’t punish herself for being human.
She doesn’t wait to feel perfect to live her life.
She chooses herself—even on messy days.
I stopped trying to become someone else’s aesthetic.
Instead, I started asking:
What makes me feel safe in my own body?
What makes me feel calm?
What makes me feel like myself again?
That’s where real confidence started.
You don’t need to become that girl.
You need to become your girl.
The one who keeps going.
The one who forgives herself.
The one who learns how to reset.
The one who doesn’t disappear on hard days.
Final thought:
The real glow-up isn’t aesthetic.
It’s emotional.
It’s learning how to support yourself instead of criticizing yourself.
That’s what I’m practicing.
And that’s what KickBoosters is really about—
not becoming perfect, but becoming real.